“Agar Fail Ho Gaya Toh?”
(Ek Aisi Kahani Jo Har Us Insaan Ki Hai Jo Kuch Karna Chahta Hai)
1: Raat Ke 2 Baje Ka Sawaal
Raat ke 2 baj rahe the. Poora ghar so chuka tha. Fan ki awaaz aur wall clock ki tik-tik ke beech Rahul ki aankhein khuli hui thi. Mobile bed ke side me pada tha, screen dark thi, par dimaag full brightness pe chal raha tha.
Poore din usne videos dekhe the. Kabhi business ke, kabhi freelancing ke, kabhi export-import ke. Har video ke end me ek hi baat hoti thi — “Agar sahi tarike se karo, toh sab possible hai.”
Par raat ke sannate me ek awaaz aur tez ho jaati thi.
“Agar fail ho gaya toh?”
Ye sawaal koi simple sawaal nahi tha. Ye ek aisa sawaal tha jo seene pe bojh ban jaata hai. Jo saans ko thoda heavy kar deta hai. Jo har sapne ke aage ek invisible diwar khadi kar deta hai.
Rahul koi bekaar ya nikamma ladka nahi tha. Degree thi. Samajh thi. Mehnat karne ki aadat bhi thi. Par jab baat aati thi kuch naya shuru karne ki, toh pair wahi jam jaate the.
Us raat Rahul ne apni aankhein band ki, par neend nahi aayi. Kyunki asli problem neend ki nahi thi. Asli problem darr ki thi.
2: Darr Kab Paida Hota Hai, Ye Samajhna Zaroori Hai
Rahul ko achanak school ke din yaad aa gaye.
5th class ka maths period. Teacher ne board pe sawaal likha tha. Rahul ko laga use answer aata hai. Usne haath uthaya. Answer bola. Teacher ne chalk rakhi, uski taraf dekha aur poori class ke saamne bola:
“Tumse ye bhi nahi hota?”
Class hans padi. Rahul chup ho gaya. Us din marks sirf ek question ke nahi gire the. Us din kuch aur bhi gir gaya tha — confidence.
Uske baad Rahul ne seekh liya tha. Jab tak 100% sure na ho, tab tak bolna nahi. Galti karna matlab embarrassment. Galti karna matlab logon ka hansna.
Phir 10th aayi. Board exams. Har jagah ek hi message tha — “Safe raho. Risk mat lo. Jo bola ja raha hai wahi follow karo.”
College me bhi same. Notes ratto. Answer likho. Pass ho jao.
Kahin bhi ye nahi sikhaya gaya ki galti karna normal hai. Kahin bhi ye nahi bataya gaya ki failure ek stage hota hai, end nahi.
Aur ye saari baatein Rahul ke dimaag me bina bole register hoti chali gayi. Aaj jab bhi wo kuch naya sochta, uska dimaag automatically alarm baja deta:
“Galat hua toh?”
3: Failure Se Zyada Darr Logon Se Hota Hai
Ek shaam Rahul apne dost Amit ke saath chai peene baitha tha. Normal baatein chal rahi thi. Achaanak Rahul ne casually bol diya:
“Yaar, main export ke baare me thoda soch raha hoon.”
Amit ne chai ka sip liya, thoda socha, aur bola:
“Bhai mushkil hai. Maine suna hai bohot log fail ho jaate hain. Apna kaam nahi hai ye sab.”
Bas. Ek sentence. Par Rahul ke dimaag me jaise kisi ne seedh maar di ho.
Us raat Rahul ne sirf business ke baare me nahi socha. Usne logon ke reaction imagine kiye.
Agar fail ho gaya toh dost kya bolenge?
“Aree bola tha na.”
Family kya bolegi?
“Pehle hi mana kiya tha.”
Padosi kya kahenge?
“Dekha, hawa me ud raha tha.”
Usne realize kiya ki uska darr sirf failure ka nahi tha. Uska darr tha logon ka verdict.
Sach ye hai ki zyada tar log failure se nahi darte. Wo darte hain ki failure ke baad unhe kaise dekha jaayega.
4: Ek Ajeeb Observation
Kuch din baad Rahul ne ek ajeeb cheez observe ki.
Jo log khud zindagi me kahin nahi badh rahe the, jo roz wahi routine jee rahe the, jo sirf complain karte rehte the — wahi log sabse zyada advice dete the.
“Risk mat lo.”
“Time waste hai.”
“Hamare bas ka nahi.”
Aur jo log khud struggle kar rahe the, kuch na kuch try kar rahe the, galtiyan kar rahe the — wo bolte the:
“Try kar. Dheere-dheere samajh aa jaata hai.”
Tab Rahul ko pehli baar samajh aaya:
Jo log khud chal nahi paaye, wo dusron ko bhi chalne nahi dete.
Unki baat advice kam, apna darr zyada hoti hai.
5: Paisa Doobne Ka Darr – Asli ya Banaya Hua?
Ek din Rahul apni maa ke saath baitha tha. TV chal raha tha, par Rahul ka dimaag kahin aur tha. Usne dheere se bola:
“Maa, main thoda business try karne ka soch raha hoon.”
Maa ne TV se nazar hatai aur sirf ek sawaal poocha:
“Paisa doob gaya toh?”
Bas. Ye sawaal Rahul ke dimaag me ghoomta raha.
Par phir usne socha — college ke liye bhi toh paisa laga tha. Fees, books, time. Koi guarantee nahi thi ki achhi job milegi. Phir bhi paisa laga, kyunki sabne bola tha “ye investment hai.”
Toh jab business me paisa lagta hai aur saath me experience milta hai, samajh aati hai, skills develop hoti hain — toh use loss kyun kaha jaata hai?
Us din Rahul ne ek nayi baat samjhi:
Paisa hamesha doobta nahi. Kabhi-kabhi wo seekhne me convert ho jaata hai.
6: Jo Fail Ho Chuke Hain, Unka Darr Alag Hota Hai
Rahul ek din apne cousin Rakesh se mila. Rakesh ne kuch saal pehle ek shop kholi thi, jo band ho gayi thi.
Rahul ko laga Rakesh negative hoga. Par Rakesh hans ke bola:
“Achha hua fail ho gaya.”
Rahul hairaan reh gaya.
Rakesh ne kaha, “Agar wo shop chal jaati, toh main galat cheezon ke saath hi aage badhta. Fail hone se mujhe clarity mili.”
Us pal Rahul ne samjha ki failure kamzor nahi banata. Failure real bana deta hai. Jo log fail ho chuke hote hain, wo darr se bhaagte nahi. Wo darr ko pehchaan lete hain.
7: Ego – Jo Chupke Se Darr Ban Jaata Hai
Ek raat Rahul ne khud se honest baat ki.
Use lagta tha log use smart samajhte hain. Use lagta tha uski image ek “samajhdaar ladke” ki hai. Aur wahi ego dheere-dheere darr ban gaya tha.
“Fail hua toh image kharab ho jaayegi.”
Par growth image se nahi hoti. Growth humility se hoti hai. Beginner banna padta hai. Galti karni padti hai. Aur ego ko side me rakhna padta hai.
8: Ek Chhota Experiment
Rahul ne decide kiya ki wo full jump nahi lega. Sirf test karega.
- Limited budget.
- Ek product.
- Ek country.
Usne apne dimaag ko bola:
“Ye final nahi hai. Ye experiment hai.”
Jaise hi pressure kam hua, action lena aasaan ho gaya.
9: Pehli Galti, Pehli Reality
Rahul ne galtiyan ki. Galat supplier. Galat communication. Overthinking.
Par is baar usne khud ko loser nahi bola. Usne sirf note banaya:
“Next time ye repeat nahi karna.”
Aur wahi se failure ka darr dheere-dheere kam hone laga.
10: Darr Kab Kam Hota Hai?
Darr tab kam hota hai jab tum process pe focus karte ho. Jab tum daily chhota action lete ho. Jab tum result ko time dete ho.
Rahul ko ab bhi darr lagta tha. Par ab darr control me tha.
Pehle darr bolta tha — “Ruk ja.”
Ab darr bolta tha — “Careful rehna.”
11: Sabse Bada Realisation
Ek raat Rahul phir bed par tha. Par is baar sawaal badal chuka tha.
Pehle sawaal tha:
“Agar fail ho gaya toh?”
Ab sawaal tha:
“Agar maine try hi nahi kiya toh?”
Aur ye doosra sawaal zyada bhayanak tha.
12: Ye Kahani Sirf Rahul Ki Nahi Hai
Agar tum padhte waqt kahin ruk gaye, agar tumhe laga “ye toh meri baat ho rahi hai” — toh samajh lo ye kahani tumhari bhi hai.
Farq sirf itna hai:
Kuch log darr ke saath ruk jaate hain.
Kuch log darr ko saath lekar chal padte hain.
Final Message – Jo Yaad Rakhna Zaroori Hai
Darr khatam nahi hota. Fail hona avoid nahi hota.
Par yaad rakhna — tum fail hone se pehle hi haar jaate ho jab tum try hi nahi karte.
Aur jo try karta hai, wo ya toh jeetta hai, ya seekhta hai.
Dono hi situation me wo aage badhta hai.
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